Talking to family

Okay so this blog may not be long. But I think thats okay because I got to one get something off my chest and two got to remind myself to be a better family member. How many of you talk to family everyday? How many of you say O I will be a better family member I'll call so and so today then never do? Sadly I have became one of those people. I know you are thinking well I'm a busy person and i forget to call them. I'm going to flat out tell you I say the same thing! And today I finally called my Papa(mind you this is the only one I have alive and I haven't seen him since 2013). It was great to hear from him and now I feel like a bad granddaughter because I haven't called to see how he is doing or talk to him about his great grandchildren; let alone ask about his health. Our lives are full of people that matter, don't forget to check in on them or talk to them. I could go on all day about how my family is falling apart and that i want to be the "glue" thats holding us together but i'm not. I'm just going to say don't go long without talking to your family. Because at the end of the day your family is all you have. Yes I'm sure you are saying but I don't need my family I have friends who are like family. All I'm going to say is blood is thicker then water. Who knows when someone will have their last breathe. Be there for your family because who knows when one will pass on. Don't think you are better off without them. If they caused you hurt just pray for them and hope they come around. I hope sometime soon I can see my papa. He and I were so close and I still want that. Remember readers your family will always be there even if you think they won't be. I may not have a perfect family but they are my family and they mean a lot to me and I want to change the whole not talking thing because I want the few that are still in my life to be in my children's life. Yes i'll admit I have a few you wrote me out of their life so to speak and thats okay. Jesus had a plan and I'm learning who loves me and who doesn't love me. I may forgot some stuff to this post but that's alright because I'm sure my readers are thinking that I got a messed up family. And I'm going to admit it I do. But who doesn't? I have family that caused harm onto me and it wasn't right but that's alright because if they caused me harm who says they won't to my children? My children deserve the best and that includes people to love them and not hurt them. At the end of the day I still love my whole family even the ones who caused me harm. And I just talk to the ones who want to be apart of my life. So readers remember to just pray for your family and try to move on from the hurt. That's what I'm going to do.

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